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10: Контест ли you doing the same thing you dont бефор энд they shaped everything from what we eat to what we spend too how we three other people to what we do work most have от we do every.

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13: Brains дан и world in order to create and everything that exists with Кренин мост h. We do everyday, оо the same way i bet экшели хэв фри компонентс её.

14: Q, which is like a trigger from automatic би хивер дон фолд энд зен и бихи селф ви синкает файнали ввод n y brain the biz англии вот и does looks for the pattern of the.

15: The routine and the reward and then с frequent it says, i'm. Как и you, have to make decisions to get up go running in the morning and said you have and to make a decision пик.

16: I know what the cure and the order, and so i make your ли whats important about this is that it means that we can take control с if we can the queues.

17: World форметин и feeling this gear head, then we can build the words that we, вот and we can change the words that we just like.

18: We become the people that we wanna be so when people think about habits, sometimes they think that its a matter дисциплин райт эф ай хэв эн в will power he have the right habits, but they think it the sign of корректер гуд пипл хэв гуд, betsy and bad people have bad habits but.

19: Экшели нот райт не science, it completely wrong you brain is not distinguish between good and bad habits you just any time years cure рутин реворд ю. Брейн в create the connection and all make that би.

20: Easy and the то become it tight, where its good its you to decide самфинг ю. Не something you won and its eric. Disciplina.

21: We can you will power to to self to do amazing when we become really amazing when we dont have to will power энимор из Вона би пет в хэппенс оо пауэр ей.

22: Every one who was not a one point you took апп бранинг ноу зет зе ферст, а time run its miserable райт ю лайк Пушин, ерселф энд эн, сам хапенс, эт лайк ту фри, викс Лейтер ю вейк апп. And you put on your running shoes out on the past and you real?

23: You know i dont i dent ивен эт те push myself to do this i just do or thinking that's the habit теин холд хэбитс, а not рефлекшен оо интернал, корректор ор копасити фор disciplina хэбитс.

24: Mechanical фанкшн, её хэппенс инсайдс и two basic стейкс зет ви мейк, вен ви трай, эбаут Хаит зе ферст из that we try to extinguish и white we try to say like окей. Юс. Смокин, о smoking морс.

25: That cigarettes out and work for little while will power to resist тентейшн ту смоук бат зе проблем из cure it still a brain and its сам.

26: You gonna have a moment of weakness youre mother last on come in to town, you are really tough day work and you gonna see that old кью карте smoke on and almost талантли юго ревёт ту.

27: Number one морс импортент н. Э. Рекогнайз ви стингли ви нид ту do we need to, and we need to take your of the in the world and insert a new в Инту.

28: And this is the second take the most people make the cure worked so that её this question how we, но the code шет вот так about кьюз ферст олмост.

29: Он to one категории итс южели тайм оф дэй, потикла плейс, зе презент оф серозе пипл and emotion ор э. Просидинг Бихе зетс бикам ритуала энд соу иф ю трейн.

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31: Around my н. Каб. Дейс из ю. Гонна и kit today we to war н рили 3.

32: Вот like little же that its hard to sometimes so when you smoking a cigarette из реворд зет, ю готэ, берст э энерджи, зет экшели, вен ю. Смоукин, е. To go, тсайд, это friends?

33: Break from work when you have morning is that you man that you gave сел айс монинг, ай турд май селф ай.

34: Death the way. We экшели. Вес из v. Эксперимент экзампле эбаут. Её i want хэд Векин, Нью-Йорк таймс ай филин. В every.

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36: Night, putting, the bone, my computer screen, and somehow эвридэй, ай е two игно, ноут and go to the car and getter коки со в. Таркин ха эт экспертс ай эс сам whats going on her how why change the end they said we look what you need to do is you need to figure this the cure?

37: And the words each day, when i fell a k i write down, this five things that time of day, who standing around me were a i my feeling any потикла эмоушенс из preceding Бихе лес энд.

38: Like three days is very clear the way, it always с always строк at about three thirty афтер райт соу или a time of day with the cure, and i have to five the reward, and then to the researchers.

39: Like right know it ревордед зе ворде кукиз, её and like no n, no, my friend said, a cookie is like a band of rewards оо тай the из тревин, а cookie бикоз ит ис гуд.

40: Give you burst энерджи бит оо из this is just a nice way to take a break from work Петкун рай the water back down you need to experiment with ди.

41: Words to figure which one is driving that three thirty афтенун Ван син ду из i v тест the hypothesis is this about energy from the шугер ин the cookie and с getting the cookie ай гет-ка Коффи энд эт шут т coffee down and i know.

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43: My танк give me the reward сенсейшен оф шугер к the queen they it did not i still see cooking, while when i did the experiments were is is that when i go up to the cafe.

44: Times your friends are by my car get my coffee wine and sometimes i go over, and i i with my friends we пенн фифтин с going about the people inside work.

45: Go down my desk where do i a cookie энимор ай и the i speaking with social action so now i see you the world?

46: The cure is a certain time of day three thirty and after ньюн зе реворд из social инакше энд соу вот i did i кем апп виз зе нью, а for myself оо имплементейшен attention at three thirty интер нью ай вуд стенд ад фро май даск ай вуд луку.

47: I go find this i see фо её фифтин го бэк ту май, Дани, оо комплитли, гот ай ди the cookies, i didnt have any problem ignoring the cookies нот гоуинг, а to the end just.

48: Cookie вот dans из train to extreme but doing, so there is successful it to the queues and the words.

49: Эксклюзив и self the action ноун эс the golden и change is difficult, if импосибл ту экстин и because the normal коннекшнс оф зе кьюрити ворд и continuo экзистен ин май брейн с so the goal.

50: Рулез иф ай а train scene to the world and файнингер, её респонс ту зе о q and deliver something so the reward чейндж из гонна би мач из and lt be much.

51: I find craving винг лоджикал, сигнер, emerging, брейн вен ю си a certain que and you expect a specific word in time he от аутсайд о кончине райт.

52: When you walk past the break room, containing the box for you work a room you're not кретин, донат, инфакт ю пробибикали файн визаут хэвин anything to eat but then you.

53: По program and your brain, is the cure, the pink or and suddenly it reward, and when we start реворд иф ви, донт садафайте энтеса зе.

54: Лак ви акли Фил. Вот looks like i мо depression, брейн сэд оо man this is war iii южели гет ту dont eat and now you reminded me that don't и out i cant wait.

55: If i tell my brain, may ей вот that he fear like i i все о из donna the.

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57: Rain. Экспект. Смолор сенсейшен. Экспект м. And so. If you screw up trash on the way out. Phil. You feel. Pointed. The negative aspects.

58: Expectation of world mix to behave ивен вормикс, деспотии энд соу и general when we thinking about the habits we want to колтибет ви хэв ту синк эбаут вот.

59: I want to grow inside my thats life венкам экстрасис н the best и advises ту уз на q, white, put, you ring, шуз некст ю б ю ранинг, кейт бифор ю плэн.

60: Friend jim эвриван её night thats a social кью энд экстаз, гив ворд writer give a small piece найс смузи, найс лонг Шауэр, нау ас v.

61: We work out and then we wait like forty five minutes before we и the chocolate, cause we like to pretend её нот релейтед ту eachother райт, ви он, вор сел the chocolate for next for exercised бат экшели вот research shows is that if you yourself right away with something.

62: Ю экшели энджой её брейн Сенг о май гаш ай лайк зис экстра эври тайм ай xi а chocolate, i gotta смузи, ай гот э найс лонг шаур ито брейне ихие изи энд изи нау компе.

63: How most people экстрасес райт the wake up in the morning go, for run and take me to fine shoes, they don't know where they gonna go and so that the get t. The door, homie and now the running, late right there.

64: He ready for school, so they rush through there are they don't need very much профист зеки н. The car, they и kid the school now that they sit your desk and the fifteen minutes, late they say файнали эту май даск н. The worlds the инфо.

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66: Rise, craving the bright reward the white q in order to make a b. Стэк, ваше хэппенс, из we think that the craving репрезенто ху ви a ray we think the craving.

67: And power over, and we do know that the аренда и position to think like алкоголизм оо тудра, а вот интерестинг из genetic при disposition the а not потикали.

68: Right there are lost of people who нетили из who never become алкоголик ор Зейкин ту мач энд they give it up and the a problem with a Кревин из нот representation of who we are?

69: Craving i representation of the v round and so if the craving you feel really пауэлла агенств, её star синк эбаут вот из q тригерс, её craving из.

70: Two to exclude кьюз фо май лайф у not hang out with these people that are no drink the what is the reward её и sky is it that i really like alcohol that that экшели вен ай.

71: I can feel relief to feel the crew to a lifestyle to certain behaviour ту эсерте денети энд ю хэв оо the power in the world to.

72: Build new to энвайрмент ту файнд деливер ей Ревин матч ласт пауэрфулл ин ер лайф.

73: Summer more powerful sam бетс вен зей старт у change they seem to сад чейн реакшен зе чейндж Азер пас. А lives we all experience is before right sometimes when you go running in the morning, its easy и it.

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76: Gonna be kiss and heaven for you because you ареди синк оф ер селф из раннер итс олреди пою айдинет бат иф ю с like me who was not н high school it all who didnt та экстраси интел ху и late twentieth ли фетис её вот хэппенс.

77: I get up and i go for run in the morning, there, потом my brain that says you know what im a runner лайк айм a person who can wake up in the morning and go for a jog, and that person when they walking to the cafeteria фо ланч зей, донт пик ап зе ан.

78: Hamburger the биг апп алед-ка. Персону перефустройство тикли ИНН парт её брейн её дазнт лисён ту.

79: Logic and in arguments but just look b хивер энд детерман ху ви a b what we экшели дду вот we say si tu researchers н chen in australia ху хэв лукет экстрасес Хает соу вот they found that four people.

80: Ту привесли xersize, вен зей старт экстрасен и reaction ей и экстрасес ей ю лес the пока work they doing.

81: Шорома ваши the dishes рили н the day they get to bed on time free and they sleep year now there nothing but going for running the morning that makes me think like or i should keep my эмекс энд май, пакет тудей Батин хэппенс из.

82: Of my brain your attention to how i b хэйв энд then my brain си ми он xxi н the morning, to you know what you're disciplina юзай Гай ху до have to spend нид слив сам you dont really need.

83: Just keep пакет иф ви а all we have to do Ван инкас ченджес её live.

84: So when youre feeling stuck in you train a figure out, whats the kiss a help get me on stack the most important квэсчен и what kind and change симс рашели, скири ту ю эниван айс бифор?

85: They know i say they Ван старт экстрасес нг итс кайнд оф файн энд ит шуд би террайн райт the last of haydn online, how to go out get running shoes джимс ю кэн джойн and for someone who эсэн экстрасес иф ю сей лайк, Тамара морнинг ворк ау.

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87: Will be a kind because thats really saying to saying you dont see yourself huh экстрасес, ю. Хэвин, трабл реконсайле, е image of yourself with this new их, which means that if you.

88: You do that new beer саденли, е. Image of гонна апдейт, салли е. Image of yourself as a sen u know what and of myself экстрасе бат ай ран, фри, тайм зис, вик, а, x.

89: So look for steam решил серии to you, and the keys хэбитс ей i like экстрас и could also be i always avoid having this conversation with my mom right it making.

90: Like easy conversation хэв энд кип он шайн эвэй Фром ит конверсейшен из о haven for you look for the kind of change её sims рашили скири ту ю энд.

91: And what you find it first take some will power it takes some third бат прити квикли Таллин ю o u know what person who can do this the person who экстрасес Юра персон.

92: Conversation on find life резолт.

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96: Like i should be the deal if i do, that i feel big deal to me and dust, and when you do сатен олес и your life we start to become more flexible.

97: And you five for you believe, н комьюнити эффект.

98: Из экшли трайин ту к change is possible in stage эври и change were you just have to believe that it gonna work right you have have little faith if i run three times this week next.

99: It gonna be easy to go out believe, it's like a if we dont акти ли to believe in change Гетт атри and so whats really important?

100: Find away to practice белив Ван вери, экзампл оф зис из алкоголик, нанами, райт соу алкоголик, c this the steps to start трикинг энд the no since i write инфакт з Гай ю кей отвёл степс риз.

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102: Ту стринки соу вотс гоинг, они what if you look at the steps, сам, а designed to help you become the of the queues те. Спринг её rise Вон the steps that have to.

103: To got to the people and when you that people what you экшели дуинг из you for the life and for the pattern шоуз ю. Вот the different кьюз зет сеч ю for drinking её ю.

104: The other steps её ask you to figure out why you Сикин аут н вот и give you what the craving во стемминг Фром зетс эбаут реворд ревордс?

105: Number of the steps, аск сам to believe her power now are by god could by nature куд би зе форс и да say you have to be релиджен бат ит.

106: Say you have to practice беливик ю хэв ту ту a meeting and say.

107: Power is эвейлабл ту миии, н. Help me and possible Джима дринк, энд ю иф джим can't give it up i can delete гив ит ап. Скозлив из k more a white.

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109: Practicing офелиин оо high power other people in your community care about you of evidence её this guy is able a drinking, симпли, бикоз и believe to get a drinking that.

110: Nancy ми, the muscle Гетинг стронге вен ай, практис ли like a и become easy for me to believe that i can change, and then i believe i can change that.

111: Infinity мор лайкли пенн Ван ли we know is live is in community and its easy практис бикоз нот онли ду ви хэв пипл Суродин ас но дду ИНН.

112: We ever спонсор и roomful of people and they say i live you, и if you don self i believe that you can change do we get it, but we get to see the evidence from people believe Кенко.

113: I see someone who says i was алкоголиг, фо фортин, её and i have drink in nine, when they stand up story about кого импакте лайвс энд.

114: Been nine men and the never have a drink again.

115: Believe изи фор ми ту ай си рефлект, эназер пипл белив из групп активити и reason why religion хэв мединс в get together from mars.

116: Temple where we all come together and we read лидже у together, its a power is easy when in the company эзер пипл ви лерн ту белив ин белив ви лерн, ту практисе.

117: We ли конвенс сел и real из v c live other people when we get together in the community and мост импортантли вен ви, Фил, зе сенс оф сошиал expectations итс матч изи у show up to the gym then.

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119: Changes. The train to make and we should ask them to hold to нобилити ту the changes рили с and people lives. We dont know экзакли вай сам пипл чейндж ви донт ноу пуш.

120: We do no intendo фс лайк, френсен девелопинг, нью белив с and.

121: When the community that also live in ass like there's gonna be a time in everyone line you train to make a change, you train to running and экстрана ИНН юр трейнинг фор мерифон ю. Трейн гив а cigarettes you train to give about ко?

122: And i just be someday, its just so hard. Экстрел. Э. Воркин ю рили Ван хэв. A drink you have say last night н вейк апп and to work out and go running.

123: Moments when two and say, i believe you can do then say look i now, i know like, this is the moment when you feeling виест, бат син ин соу мени, дифферент ситьюэйшен, джаст, лайк ю и ю.

124: The bar you to wake up and do that рано экзасены билив н u with you and we knew that your time.

125: If we really want to change, we should do, we should find the people who are to change is оо ху не changes that we all have.

126: Weakness and the people here эксид итс нот the never вик итс зе вик её серанд. Её by other people who ремайндер стронг.

127: If you want the first important, you can do is sit down at a small for yourself, just say ok, the next time, these tracks, the next time feeling.

128: To the cure вот time the whats going on around me and sword i think is giving me just to and you are first it okay, but её олсо.

129: And white out why you believe this changes посибл парт ту what makes конверсейшенс ворк, а five to become супер.

130: Communicate that for what you communicated ванн, the reason i got is i was working the new york times of the point and i репортёр энд, they made me, certainly, а manager and i фиги, айл би э грейт, менеджер райт, ай н е бизнес кул.

131: B a i have менеджерс май Хоу лайф, а like i i got this and more проблем профешнл комьюникейт энд then i got put to the jab энд ай з рили квикли, ай воз terablaster н а was most terrible it with communication.

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133: Sense but everyone else work the from the Мидин синг, вот экзакли ви спорт ту do here, i dont understand how this fits and саймен энд соу зис-ка my really interested in trying to understand what we know about communication, а супер.

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136: This moment of супер communication where we connect with other people were suddenly we see the world the same way what is that some people, who do this consistently зер сам пипл ху кэн коннект, виз ли any one and any time those people are.

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138: Oh, have have conversations with the stranger the same with we have a conversation with your best friend, but we need to understand with skills are lower to do that and one we do it opens up a whole new world have a комьюникейт коннект из the people that.

139: Three different kinds of conversation so we have most the time when we open air all there is the practical конверсейшен райт вир вир толкин, эбаут мейкинг плэнс тугезер, ресо проблемс, тугезе энд, the golden конверсейшен практикал нэйче из рили.

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141: А Вон empezar а вот you to tell me you understand what im feeling you knowledge, this feeling im having and there to have and you know what feels like to have those in this the сошёл конверсейшен вич.

142: How we to each other how we relate to society this important to us, when someone say something like a among the way that i see this is thats a clue there were having a social конверсейшен Зера денниса, н. The айдент, фо гивин.

143: Parts, which means the death has a role to play, and how this is gonna fall in in social конверсейшен айм нот фор плэнер, солюшен, айм о not looking, если for mp4, бат, айм, Лукин, фо, наложент самбади.

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149: And there we feel connected to челер, вен ю, рейк, конверсейшен виз, самван и when you have and just good conversation with someone your body in your brain, to change, so without you the person youre speaking too right.

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159: Conversation is going on потили сет конверсейшен энд э капл оф скиллс рили хелп with this one of the is asking questions but there is listening to the kinds of worlds the person is use after times we.

160: Have we think should be a practical конверсейшен вир толкинг, эбаут зе баджет, фро, некст кордер бат ай сэй синкс лайк you know im just im really worried about a i getting this баджет райт бикоз иф ви донт н e il latte пипл лаф энд лайк l just i just feel really Энес эбауте.

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163: Same way a way to feel we got this, as we dont have to do when you much me, and you show me you in my emotion, i suddenly feel, i feel.

164: More welcome in the conversation and more импортантли ай траст ю мор соу вен ю сэй некст лук that best way to do this is to work through next кодерс numbers and lets try a down whats реалистик индс зе бест Вэй ту дил в these emotions?

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166: Conversation at the same time in what is really about conversation so that practical конверсейшен.

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176: And anyone who who has like a young child home next time, they wanna talk to you just ask in this квэсчен ю вонна би хэл, то the heart, and вот find that they know экзакли вет зей вонт её тел u that they need now the thing is of us in пропешен империмет.

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180: Simple as if you need someone who and doctor Аскин оо you know what hospital do work you owe you know what дай медикал скул зе секонд квэсчен зе секонд квэсчен.

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183: Question the round as all the time. If we know look for brain turns to your information in two different the power брейн сентер, муслин, зе приференц л кордакс её is very attractive to data and.

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200: Live in a world has ордер ту ит the year the энтерьер beauty to the logic файндера ордер ИНН. Сам complicated, олмост энисинг и become a deep квэсчен райт, а asking someone?

201: What you like about you? Do for just the y и y? Do do said to move that what im doing it these questions are asking you?

202: How you made the decision, you made why you became the person that you are today and then i do that what im really doing im showing фо май кьюриосити её i want to understand you and im asking you to describe to me, who you экшели ар.

203: Chapter севен хау ду ви Фил конверсейшен конверсейшенс ви хэв emotional conversations and we are a very nice н emotional conversations из Корин.

204: Emotion конверсейшен воркс из that i use language indicate to you that im talking about how i feel something right in mail практикал, ви, майт би толкинг, эбаут ви и go эдикейшен энд лайк в should we book ticket to the bahamas зет Сим.

205: Like a practice конверсейшен бат зен айм сэй things like i just, feel really стресс и and i need something to help me relax, and we just want to the beach i really help me, calm down what im doing, for my language im showing you the worlds, i you im showing you.

206: Экшли, айм ИНН an emotional майндсет зэт зис дисишные кинг фор ми эбаут вот он and vcation итс нот guided by plane prices, скеджул ли not right now its guided by what i'm feeling emotional, and we need to discuss that we need to ноложат бифор.

207: Move Ван ту the practical консолейшен соу, э перфект, экземпл, хау, пауэрфулл, дип questions can be, a when they lies to have emotional конверсейшенс, вен зей, ан. Эмоушенс, зетта, май би войст, камс, Фром, зис экзэмпл.

208: Sky доктор дай ху из surgeon in new york city, a doctor day is the world эксперт Увин, Туманс, соу эвридэй, комменти, офис a just they have.

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212: We expected, if it is what to do different ли that don't имён, но radiation, но серджери джаст, ai you н i tal ми the something was happened, эри сам тайм.

213: Lucy the we say things that really thats great to he really пришит зэтс гуд эдвайс зей ви гоу хоум её то over спас и came in three day её for follow up, and they with сити даун энд сэй ю ноу дак рили пришит и venice тайм виз ми иф итс окей.

214: Вот i decided лайк ту ду из i like you to cut me open is fasten и possible like if you can put me on the table тудей энд ду the today lets do that доктор дай зисис бе вилдер бикоз зей её come to him for advice and.

215: They work i advice again and again and again тули рил Зеер игноринг и advice they could hear his advice he практикал майн сет энд they work to become the home.

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218: With my dad, because he died when a seventeen years old and i do not в my life that i do pop my kids see the talks for ten minutes and ever Ван меншен фирс оо.

219: Pain and doctor day listen с this man needs to have a motion конверсейшен зис мэн из эмоушн менее зис мэн нид ит the doctor, дай макен.

220: So what i did next thing i never see the doctor и self i sing like you know a экли вот on my да, сёк эбаут севен ерс гоу энд ол the same you feeling right now.

221: But also the like a silver lining бат ви конверсейшенс ви невер в heaven in other words i see what you are feeling i much you ка.

222: Conversation and im showing my with you, and they about for few доктор, дай, сэд ю ноу, андерстенд, хау ю филинг, эбаут, зис кен ай телл ю эбаут, сами опшенс, Кена, тел, эбаут зе сингл.

223: Do i премишн to move from an emotional ту a practical конверсейшен тугезер земене ес. И то about a villain the man that a great idea never change the mind sense доктор дайс making this one change аскинг э дип квэсчен.

224: Beginning of и конверсейшенс пейшенс зе намбер пейшенс фолловинг из advice he gone up by севенти просент, итс бикоз, вен ай матч ю потикали, вен ай е emotions and i show you that i эмпата.

225: I show you u feeling a moment we hear each match, we listen мач ай кэн хир зе эдвайсе гивин ми энд ю can i want to understand you.

226: So when having an emotion конверсейшен ич персон рили вонт ит из they want эмпатии зей, донт её need a solution, зей, донт нид deliday зей, донт нид э плэн бат зей Ван из they want to know that you.

227: Say you аж даджина эбаут ретерне джадж ин ер плейс зэт мир to even if we дискрит чазер дификалт ванили.

228: Самое a conversation вен ай сэй сам понабл вен ай сей сам you could Чач?

229: Момент инстинк зиси бин зис из bin харрен май эволюшен вен ай си джадж ай ей вери кул этеншен ту хау ю респон трение.

230: Интерес ситуэйшен и the фред хир энд соу ай тел ю сам ю кэн джадж сами симпл ю ноу от its really weird but i dont like pizza i think пицца дискасе энд and l attention хау ю реакт и b Толи нет.

231: For most people say like you a pizza every Ван лав пицца the you have have pizza райт ю у judge me about your даджен зе факт ю джадж ми и will close my of.

232: Make me feel лес клоуз ту ю. И make me trust you if that moment when i say you know i just dont like pizza иф ю виз холл, джаджмент энд ю сей ю ноу зет и i like pizza бат бат али heat н ай хит.

233: Like i, if you like to me, when you respond to my вонили Баширин самфинг, эбаут, еселф ай q джадж бай шеринг, вонили рон.

234: Even if we die чазер ви гонна Фил клоу ИНН a conversation вен пипл Фил к then they feel here чазер вен зей Фил лайк её its because ресирукт воннаби ити хэз экорт энд.

235: Mean that i need to tell you a sad story about my н и i mean that i need to cry about something mean, that i need to review, тикали персонал ит джаст, минс зет ай хэв толд ю сам you could дж энд инстэд.

236: Judging me you в judgment, and you she something about i джаджи ретерн н. Реперка Ван абилити, а curse ивен иф v come from different background, even if we dont like it very much, we will feel.

237: There we will feel more trusting that we will feel like person is not a and moment we can find the connection to overcome all the differences пение ви хэв самтаймс.

238: It can be hard for us to recognize there and emotional conversations с хэппенинг райт потикали иф вор а work or if оо инсети зет Симис рили профешнл лоджикал о talking about it so know that case what we need to do?

239: Need look at two things we need look at all the words that using their likes i feel like this im about that you know this person brought this happen its really good question because it seems like the anxious about it i.

240: Point two emotions but i i can do it, i can just look buddy language, write one that we know is that when a feeling emotional it turns to be протрейд, Инна вербл.

241: Vocal communication the just that i make the sounds came out of my mouth, where im feeling really like you know im reading from a script, or my конверсейшенс кэн фри флоин and its going all over the place, and im sean, and you know what.

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325: But if you feel like im listening to you, about who you are i understand how you see the world, and if i speak they helps you understand how i see the world health you be but who i am if оо но из jazz.

326: Because this сошёл респросить её v. I feel it момент we will feel connected to each and its wonderful feeling to the american.

327: To find best friend филинг соу гуд конверсейшен из so number, a go my sad, i like to, вот, и the things make people лило.

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