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1: Today we gonna talk about a topic that i think its really important crucial for that understand of ассисти с it's about here right, so bad i know you the seminar эбаут зис.

2: Really so америки эбаут сам is complete healing апосли оо и me more realistic ту ток эбаут адаптив менеджмент.

3: Вот expectations шубики хэв 300 i would say that its much closer to complete или complete the of the damage, the prognosis из pretty with one exception.

4: If you have entered шип о ready compromise эф ментал хелф фор экзампл иф ю не ship in апостола и state or if you and sheep with Бо лайн.

5: If you he had mental и prior to the that then to эксбет сам.

6: Clinical аспектс энд сам клиникал фичерс оф е при экзистен кондишен оф е приморили со the only exception but if you nee, или stable, ментал хелф зен.

7: Prognosis is excellent, and that would be full реверсал оф мост оф the most of the damage окей фромм её клиникал персонал перспектив вай Анастасис, тик вьюс generate тайп оф рамада.

8: Maybe традишнл пити и models фейл ту фули кэпчер райт вот make this Рома политики дифферент её а like фо ту ту край ай нот.

9: Im a professor of сокологи соу вайл ай ду хэв секонд дери клиникал экспириенс энд от i have the с клиникал experience of people work with me who терапис энд ай рид офкос зеб Кейта.

10: Sometimes кейс ноу ивен ай донт хэв э фест хэнд клиникал экспириенс соу зет импотент ту би онест ИНН ИНН окс ченджес итс импортант ту i one position стил хэв ин зэт ай эм the father of.

11: And the rise why do you are to special type of бью вай ту сей ю ю ю бин абьюз бай вай вай дуд ю.

12: Think some warning you know why do do thing in the найтин эйти зет ви нид зе спешл лейбл энд ай синк в we do need the special лейбл энд виз зе пассинг декейд ай have become even more in this view i believe i.

13: More this is needed угу. I think that the main reason is that when never you are н релейшеншип виз носиси энд ит кул би романтик релейшен шип, интернет релейшн шип ворк плейс.

14: Friendship эника interaction пролонг стенд interaction with the nazis ю экшели interacting with human being who is half baked ху из нот.

15: Юман бинг ху, мисс ху из missing критикал dimensions of what it is to be юман. Зика оф мани лекс эмпатии, оо эффектив эмпатии. Лекс эмоушен. Эмпатии. Лекс.

16: Two axes позитив эмоушенс из over well by негатив эффективизации, южели пром ту конфликт из and if you use the language of psycho analysis and object релейшн.

17: The person is unable to tell the difference between x object an object со ю. Люмен бин и a figment н is mind, a and элемент и из фэнтези и part of.

18: It does really believe that exists? And this is prone to fantasy проманс фэнтези дифенс о, this is divorce from reality. Да, from reality is импе реалити тестинг энд со.

19: Those who лиджеси и client who say or would say that to be tough this нассис из to be in touch with evil so you have the likes of скотт пёк энд джордан, питерсон энд сон зей сэй ввёл джаст.

20: Name for evil and, of course on the extreme сайт, you say that нас и demons оо i think all these people, all these people reading of terminology.

21: И adopting вот y train to say is нас. И и the experience of being with нас is very симуле ту the experience of being with alien species and.

22: Ай ай фулли, и it is now the нас в the нас из das fall the нас из супер импо ю из он дефенс нау Вена и when i use the.

23: Convenience сей а continue to use the mail программ соу хи супер imposing ю хи он дефини фор экзампл зена из never экспириенс Пропер сопере индивид эйшн Фром зе Мазер Фром зе афиге соу хи да.

24: U two right here are you here, консь ю хи, и you here chris with you he doesnt love you to be to have тономии индепенденс эдженси дисижен мейкинг, опасити.

25: Friends family life a job и i you, he контри ю хи констрик её live. And because he never экспириенс оперейшен хи дазнт дду оперейшен даст вот и operation секонд си. For example, из.

26: Inside there is not function self the identity дифьюжн айдентити дистанс энд советли зе носи ванс ту эмпти ю туу оо you to take a way.

27: Its another example, that the first example and the last one i promise then we are talking about the the the нас. Импос из on the fishing is on you so the first example, of this is the нозии.

28: Essential из two of three золд соколок спикинг emotional спикинг итс э кейс оф станед станде оо арестед девелопмент дисрапшн информейшн оф айдентити энсел со the нас иис из фри золд энд хи.

29: Ю и ю хи форс из to become a child because he a child, and so this lot of ешен и and not only an agency.

30: You loser adulthood вен ю ноис, но инглии нот нот, или а like сайкос на series of marvin текникс.

31: For example, they гас лайт зей донт ноу the gas лайтинг а like that is not eaten the кон фаблет зей хэв мемори гаппс со the инвестори эс ту вот my, and they have a fantasy.

32: To be in the fantasy bad и the impact of all this is it you feel гасит ю Фил зет ю ин гас лайт ю. No you lose you on reality тестинг н.

33: Properly you become a from reality and strange from your so this is one example of makaveli текник, эназер экзампл из интренет итс ванн the нас вербал кьюз ту эссеншал.

34: Synchronized её брейн waves with his brain waves and im not not a и z, and then he has вектор оф инвейжн вектор оф пенетрейшн энд хи.

35: Wine and install application the process is introduction ножек in to your my её, and this жект из with you even н из лонган.

36: Physically so this is just ten cent of the damage софит вен ю ю. Далее эдженси, её индепенденс, её копасити ту критикал.

37: Reality you everything you lose everything and you left with the voice inside хед вич ренни энд зис войс Кола из негатив интроект.

38: I was just about it, because it has become to me that many we turn to reject the water on so i was вандер иф сами.

39: Dynamic of the programs that been to remain сик ай синк итс вот talking about её, ту, ту этейн энд the to maintain and exhaust the nausea из control long after his gun and the.

40: Message in колюжн виз Азер, интроде, ттс иф ю вэйт фор экзампл мазе, у u two, Нигей, ю Мазер, юз ту атак, ю. Фритса, ю ашли энд сон, the нас инпроект вуд коллаборейт, виз your mother, интроект ин зис.

41: Ok, would create a cluster of negative автоматик, негатив, форт a cluster of negative эффектив инсайд, е майнд энд зис, кластер вуд метастаз и would take over your decision making.

42: And the message of this cluster of voices из экшели ю а ан лавабл ю ан вези ю донт deserve to be happy you, dont deserve to be healthy, you should destroy джаст.

43: Going но я thats why i think maybe some more many н от feeling like they dont have an identity after дивью сам is this demo риверс.

44: Is reverse, this exception is i say. For example, if you borderline personality диоде её ор ивен borderline personality организейшен. Вот is not say. Угу.

45: You have айдентити дифьюжн н u. Dont a stable айдентити ю донт оо айдентити ю. Донт континьюити энд ю флаке у shape shift between вельюс, белив, tendencies.

46: Preferences дримс, окс фэнтези, паттен, конишн, эмоушенс ю. Константли, инфлакс, ю лайк со so, if you like that then you в enter Елена.

47: Your identity дифьюжн вуд би магнифика энд then that may be difficult to reverse, that might be difficult to reverse, или if you co dependent оо сами депендент персоналити.

48: You and the relationship is someone who controls from the bottom. Сам one. Who displays нидин энд Клингис энд хелплесс. Иное to actually контрол.

49: So you would enter the ship was this, but the нас иис вуд inn is the wood и the wood регресс ю из кодепен и would want to become even more ко депендент соу вен зе.

50: Из over её ко депенденси хэв бикам мач ворс зенит ту би соу и со the only coffee иф ю энтер зе релейшншип из ментал фичу спешали, спешили substantial фичерс.

51: There she would have ластинг демедж бат, а something that happens a lot right there some many people that that have ко депендент tendencies, and they релейшеншип норсист оо элис.

52: In my practice, i find that day some how the сам приморили зет коннекс оо relates to коредени ин the history in the family.

53: Es, war, we dont e statistics of course but we do a, v, e, k, about one of k, r, n, s, and lt и the way to look.

54: Is this the нас is in дискриминант, энд промис её из not type i type индепендент н the dont see, dont care if you freak, if you if депендент и sci.

55: If you hell, if you are not dont they dont about that about what i call they care about sex саплай садистик он ассисти сервисес сервисис куд би. For example.

56: If you a lot money over and and stability сейфти о secure base now офкорс Ван вей тут play из из if the partner is very good looking бикоз зен ю кэн.

57: You can brag about Онин дроп, дед годжес, партнёр соу ви хэв зе трофи Вайс, оо трофи соу эврисин ю can think of interns оф преференсес оф зе насии форс.

58: This, for under this, for c and the тестью Одишелидзе, её process of одишн её на иис одишн ю. And if you met two of the for you get the job its a job in to you the job.

59: Дискрипшен из you need to me to of the фо соу. Нас из v a ha the reverse is not to the people who end up with насиз, а дискриминатор зей, а нот promises they do.

60: Shoes, the noise the perfect to be with its a choice and the in my from my experience what i read what i seeing talking to и lt вот Сим.

61: We dont have data but it what thing that people with примобола иис при экзистен кондишн спешли олайн персоналити, диоде депендент, персоналити, диоде, ооо депенденси пипл.

62: People with постаматик, conditions комплекс трома, энд ptsd, пипл виз пипл в broken and damaged. Бикоз зей, джаст андега, сам life crisis that the.

63: Devour the lost love one or they were оо the out of prison, но сам life, crisis, the people that сети and the gravity the нас.

64: Because the nazis экью энд овер мне confidence ес конфиденс из in if the нас пафик иф v talking about they would have супер.

65: So they would be there would be ли and so yes, i would i would say that he when i said that прогноз из is good this оптимистик пронансиэйшн эс ту do with people who.

66: Relatively ментали ли non Ван in the beginning of the relationship, and you write that im not sure what of such people i was were still is there anything we can do for these people.

67: People with this bpd виз депендент disorder because ву day have to work in therapy to воркс, рековер хилинг мейби зе ориджинал.

68: Personality disorder ментер проблем. Я ввёл ви нид ту distinguish between the clinical features of the original примоли и original condition. Before the нас and the added импакс оф.

69: That can be терпи ю нид ту экшели гоу фру зе на process of growing up you need to чай ю бин регресс фанта со ю нид ту спрейт Фром Денис n.

70: You need to again you кор айдентити, н индивидуалити, бай сретинг, Фром зе насити, зис кэн би комплек терапии фор экзампл, интернал фэмили систем терапии, транзакшн, аналисис терапии.

71: This tree that i just very good at inducing оперейшн индивидуй смололи с сайколоджи коуд из вери гуд иис сакко анализ из good is, but it у take.

72: Rest of your natural life to get anywhere, this is so i dont recommend it, so thats one example of the damage inflicted by the носиси, он ю the regards оф е фри экзистен, conditions из риверс.

73: Another example, there is took away or agency индепенденс, персонал тономии энд со офкос ю кэн регейн и, another example, is your eye to the point that you could, но лоне гейдж оо Вальт реалити.

74: Lost your reality тестинг зе на i became the sole интерфейс битвин ю a reality we can teach реалити тестинг ни and here for example когнитив би терапии в би вери.

75: Because it helps you to die банк автоматик негатив фоллс энд ту реплейс из реалистик фолс когнитив из тачто зе тачто из реалити соу.

76: Everything is dead to you could be ривест эврисинг её of the year, but the only the only lost damned кейс фор экзампл зет юлайн зи онли демедж вуд би.

77: Set your identity фьюен вуд би матч more пронаунс матч more frequent and much more difficult to cope with even интерапт сети зис, зис клиникал фьюче вуд би экзабайт.

78: For people that don't have this при систем кондишн вот will you say, maybe will be there, the first к степ сам one can take two to reveal эссенс оф селф, автор the и because you are talking about you know?

79: Bb shoot by н. Минимум сикс оо самтаймс 3 and you write it till?

80: Level up dimensions of the personality of king of экзект фанкшн офф эффект менеджмент оф Амин итс зе демедж нормас бат в lali, на the first i, the advice, i give people.

81: Which is not a популяр Вайс и спешили они бикоз тейк эвей лот оф the income ай рекоменд ту пипл ту нот 3 enya, and i will try to why only инишл офкос?

82: Therapy is a critical интеграл фичер оф или recovery you can't do it on your own you can't с alone you need help страку хелп бай само вот из do, but, initial, и dont got to терапии вай.

83: Because you have the nazis войс инсайд е майнд, её if you go to therapy the voice of the nazis would i the therapy. For example, the aten терапии медики энд зе.

84: Provide you with инсайдс эбаут еселф н. The нас inside your mind with high jack the insides, эндрю.

85: So, for example, the knees could create a depressive reaction when you get in inside that is a bit критикал её this in your mind i would apply and would use депрешн.

86: If you get inside оо the process, the two are, for example, then you should is good вас, but it the.

87: Project would i jack this advice and wood so that the voice of the in your mind would pathologic зе.

88: Process as it everything it нет, френдшип и family your view of your history эврисин зис войс континет полюс итс поллюшен со ага.

89: The first you should do before you should do your best to get rid of this voice now its not found. Угу ол ю нид ту ду бейсики из when never you eternal voice.

90: Write it down just write it down, and then try to tie, which of these sentences belong to её он фентик войс энд вич оф зис, sentences из alien, из is coming.

91: From you now some of these sentences maybe coming from your mother, интраджект сам оф the sentences from a teacher from a per sam per your ex lover её x. Where you have you have hundreds of?

92: Every мост юман и about i don't have this byor и discovery discovery н do not have a i saw it was юниверсал бат.

93: Do have it so and you have if not hundreds войсес эври Ван виз эвер про live ai Ван в инет, сигнификат ю т ю the voice.

94: So you and full филинг мени пейджес ю no, with this statement is you discover, the death voices, talking to constantly нау the её колен оф дисво её кластер.

95: The voices вич репрезент society in the process of солейн, её its also, но не не voices, the voices of parental figures, and son and.

96: I will give you a rule of some very simple rule after you right down or sentences how to i, which of these sentences is really you voices оо sentences that are negative about you?

97: The try to drag you down, take you down harshly critical the they create an image of you of concept of you, which is essential негатив, зис нот, войсес зис из нот.

98: Your voice is a friend your voice is always positive, not your voice is not диснеленд из not like ступили позитив бат е войс из баланс е войс.

99: Major positive компонент е войс из always friendly way has your beck always по of you, give you сакор, компанет, эффект это if you came a cross.

100: Statement in your mind state in e minor? You, for example, донт гоу донт год you know you pt англии? The not your voice? If you the voice in your mind that you?

101: Really not good money, if our you i would start this business that not your voice. Угу. The voice that its not your voice.

102: If you came a cross a voice that you been for a lot right now you're not it пик перформанс, бат синкс и gonna be okay, i trust you ю your to survive and to трайв зет из your voice?

103: So have done this for y u begin to notice that её и voice your friend её интернал френд из экшели камин доминант энди сайленсинг за voices грели.

104: It im sorry could you could use it like you could, also do these words, you could it could say shut up абсолютли шат ап ю донт оба.

105: I look it on line like looking like you to you have days you can. Угу. Файт Файт конфликтс ю can be antagonistic ю ноу.

106: But ultimately, the more you listen to to the фентик wars its gonna take over and is on the silent voices идёт минет вен.

107: Feel that most of time you are talking to фентик войс вич изменён позитив оптимистик бат баланс вен ю, а in touch with this friend really and its more.

108: С тайм ли to this voice you ready ok, if you go to the voice is dominant that go its like that and you say?

109: In your интернал корт.

110: No words, you absolutely right, i have fun, there is so much resistance ивен вен пипл ноу. Вот to do they can they turn to touch the situation, and they do ка.

111: For example, here in latin america терапис ворк аллот и india or body center, терапис терапис вот ю сэй зет, салют, проч.

112: I have i have something i develop самсинг колд е nine фолд Найн фолд паф Найн фолд паф ту хилинг энд ит эз фри ит хэз боди майнд энд фанкшн ю шуд.

113: Absolute ли start with the body её the body creates the body generates фидбэк, фидбэк лупс зет хэв пронаунс импакт он the mind ивен н. К. A great impact but as ванде кол.

114: Said, you know the body keeps the score the seat of trauma the container the repository is your body you note if you totally ignore your body only free lines you cannot do that and the reason is very simple н.

115: About it и song самсинг ю ноу акаши акашик рекорд зериз и that when you went through the trauma вен ю the experience the trauma зис хэз хэд, physiological импакс ес.

116: Blood pressure вент апп heart beat вент апп ю system went down much more си инсомния слип диссо о off this a typical компонент оо сайдэффект оф травма соу вен.

117: One two rivers the trauma ю нид ту так, инишиал зис симптом вич тугезе эмаунт ту синдром ю нид ту так these symptoms ниали энд then you need to learn how to use your body to.

118: Reverse трома оо или мелетид энд then to resist to because you can learn to resist Тома бай ми ми, а ed Ван завешен.

119: People talk a trauma the way they talk about cancer оо у as if it was my of clinical энтити тотали обжектив, но депендент о like. And thats офкос трама.

120: Is not a клиника крома из сабжектив реакшен.

121: And it critically депендс, он не of web н ю к extend пипл ту the same event and only one of the bit that would оо.

122: Effect that affect соу зет гоу to show that there is венерабли и to trauma the trauma is the outcome экси фо ми.

123: The trauma is the outcome of interaction between эксивент её name and something in new you need to be прайм фо.

124: You need to be ready for trauma ю нид ту би он the of trauma эни а so you need to develop резистенс? Тут this nine the people that резистент ту трама ю нот.

125: Из fisher in you, де фишен ю нот и so thats not популяр из when i say these people, people н но эвриван нот л. Это and today we know, for example, the letter.

126: Guidelines ви. No, for example, инишиал ати about two three его we use to дебрив пипл лайк в trauma and we would миатли ви. Вуд мидит ли steam to repeat that trauma or recall that.

127: And to describe the trauma and ill and today, we know the big disaster because when you диприс пипл immediately after the trauma it, импринт зе трома н. Импринт энд then is very difficult to reverse.

128: И индикатив оф механизм оф резиденс ту трома бикоз пипл ху а трома дайс вен зей ре experience the trauma, the, trauma диккенс, пипл хуа нот.

129: When the recall the event it are not right tom saw the recall ИНН пипл, ху сесети ту, трома, симс ту and guns the trauma вич из пруф.

130: See these people have редьюс инджика респонсив Сайко и response to trauma the prime фо трама, ай кол зе прайм фо трама соу зетс олсо.

131: First question when you say is can be реверс нот реверс мэни пипл ин на many people with experience ассистант, а notice because.

132: Others a trauma, i saw it could and are being комплекс Тома case or it could and being a very bad experience, and this also рефлекс он

133: Prognosis ю ноу н о прогностике прогностик валюту ту дис соу в you say it could be an обжектив фо зе форэксе фо зе терапии ту.

134: Help people help people develop есилен ту трама автор the dennis its pretty шокинг зет зе из нот Сангин энни фримен моделити зе там yes i think its.

135: Shocking i think there is need and possibility to teach people how to resist трама ту девелоп трама резиденс трама резистенс ай синк итс ду and i think i think.

136: Not not if you because you url интема из just

137: Name оо обилии соу Ван эвер ю трули интенет ай нот ток вот people with insecure тамент стал the people its another example of прогностик валью пипл ароники ароники пипл виз.

138: Ill have a match the prognosis, бикоз её the match лес импакте зе дон дон зе зе угу, угу. Бат ви e exception of this car people people.

139: This секьюр оо relatively хэл и attachment, стайл, новодент аттачмент стайл, а these people are ванреллю зе а зе а intermittent ас in the relationship and i.

140: And even if is not suck you could be because i made life choice, which means that.

141: Relationship is over, you cool be because a cheat on you infidelity и waves to be tie you know so i think when any Ван ричез зе эйдж оф дейтинг.

142: О the age of interaction with other people фо фо Ризен оф интенети зет инклуд френдшип секс интернет релейшенс вен ю. Рич зис эйдж вич лет se io, no twelve fourteen эра.

143: Ag ли to mid the listen, we need to teach and resistance ес абсолютли из not a it even more shocking зет вен ю гоу ту би.

144: Trauma оо the trauma treatment, тритмент modalities the include my body modalities сач за what they teach you see them to do they them to reverse the trauma it.

145: Its like you know you, you have лан кансер ю кам ту the doctor, the doctor, tell you okay, you were gonna right you and gonna give you и but the doctor doesnt tell you not to smoke.

146: This, но тем to deal with this, the cause but only with the effects with the symptoms со и симптоматологии индиа из totally

147: Сам экстенти из still ill симптомато ту мач консент виз symptoms и lot of fc и all the сфер сатери виз, symptoms нот и ко асинк и.

148: Date is really insightful, бикоз, её there is not an про z i know of that we teach you how to face трома н билет, вен ит камс апи принти, проч. Ес, ес и проч.

149: Профилактик профилактик про your death note профилактик терапии, лайк you dont go to therapy and лес самсинг оо Хэпин ту о n лес самсинг из not working ооо it's like терапии фиксес фиингс, терапии шуд онли.

150: Preventing экзакли лайк медицина рил медисин айс Медин ИНН медисин её и экшли тудей и mostly из about preventing нот эбаут.

151: They dont teach you how to i like why dont teach how to war its its crazy, they dont teach you how to how to develop лайф плэнс энд лайф.

152: Crazy how to а too rare i can give верили вич все все от of pain, and maybe в Дёмин профит.

153: Money so i wanna talk to you about no контакт бикоз ит из песен the goal for фо, или this case what why we you say this?

154: Vice is this so important, when i develop the the но контакт нет it was set it was the set of twenty seven стратеджи её and i was мидии атакт бай зе.

155: Little and call everyone was таки me cause they said its a very long эдвайс энд фестивал шуд ей give a second chance and.

156: It is контакт the ю game and lt и контакт не place, and so are we talking фото в контакт со the no contacting воз эластик н.

157: How full вас n n and discover токин это today, no contact, is gold and not only онлайн.

158: Saving мейнстрим Голда е е i think and the reason i аджаст, но контакт ин the first place, which we came мач мо эвидент твенти он thirty лейте во z the nothing has any.

159: Lucid ли that you can someone with ассисти personality disorder, акьюрек ли эйти, файв персент оф the time, if you are exposed to a video of that person.

160: Which is thirty seconds лонг иф ю си эн email by this person or if you even see фото a photograph of this person and im not talking about диагности.

161: Cleaning профессор оф сайколоджи, ай толкинг эбаут лемон персон, а talking about anyone so that the lot of studies and the put in the face хэндбук оф наити персоналити.

162: By me so today we know even if you see фото о shot video home you can.

163: Then the series is in in a university, and the that you can judge people generally ли if you export оо for three seconds three?

164: Why is that because её state of mine чейнджес зе discovery was that, when people, for example, the exposed to анасии вай фотограф оо видео home?

165: Day by day девелоп кьют, cute дискомфорт Бодорин он эти and long i коин Фрейз, а reaction of is not my Фрейз бат, а, reaction is my Фрейз соу.

166: I. Кон и to describe the the reaction to is, even сети second is create the equivalent of эти дискомфортит лист бат, дифферент ли.

167: Угу. Имеджин ферти Дейс имеджин ферти ман имеджин ферти из if you want to void севир ментал хелф импакс зер из.

168: No way, you can interact with the нас that is not be nine interaction that is no closer, офкос, нас is never фо ю кложе бат и also not by nine вай из that because нас из predator and.

169: И из the насии из bin кондишн ту пуш батон и предето у push, buttons, феста, колд, эмпатии, колд, эмпатии из тай коин ту дискрайб, комбинейшен оф когнитив эмпатии.

170: And рефлекс со на first one and weakness and then push this н и н. Эмоушн реакшен.

171: Он say oh my god, he said, i says oh, my god, he said how great now do now i can come из Ванера, из дифренс, из a down i can комплек самсинг соу ю.

172: Код эмпатии зе нас is then proceeds to learn её ваннаби энд викнес н фри, ни security and i play on this in the амплифай и.

173: Use to mode to take or mind ту ту ту дистрой айдентити, ту тейк эдженси оо n олеси комплитли, он first date.

174: Before you not on a first date, it is with making all the decisions were to go вот to it how long to stay саденли, э хоста, тейк, овер энд ю.

175: Угу. Со.

176: The only solution, the only practical advice, is no contact of course there many ситуэйшен в no contact is impossible, and then the other techniques с develop my my my year second best.

177: By grey рок грей вокинг на not providing the нас и теншн эксплай бат иф ю can it all no contact en Ван моо?

178: If you have анассис и son as his mother, you should go no contact, if your father из cities, you should go no contact if your mother is eighty nine золд энд даинг ю шуд го no contacts.

179: Ооо the story, а excuse to remain тач. Виз и so i dont bi, ok and i. Even i even i can even demonstrate to how people.

180: Инвент ситуэйшен крейт ситуэйшен ИНН о to stay in touch with and they not, for example, литигейшн инкорт зей кот and they say to you see i.

181: Its away to stay tough.

182: People виктим диссидентов, виктим крит, нарратив, зет эксплейн, вай абсолютли зей маст Дейн тач лайк из my son she is my mother is my father or?

183: I need to sue the nazis all excuses.

184: Yes, there are even more complicate нас i think when there are short чилдрен зей ворк тугезер, зер из файнаншл, депенденс, ивен зен ай мин.

185: You have to to go no contact, but its really hard for for some people who you its not heard it that you a response to the но контакт лайк you want to be, but it's hard.

186: Its Харон и plies and more вот too mean to say, i think that its complicated and yes, its complicated so if you have come children мейби ю шут комьюникейт.

187: If you work together мэйби, you should not long work together, if you live in the same city and you have to Сим бикоз из in the same street мэйби, you should move away of course its complicated оф корс итс костли.

188: If you файнэншл депендент, зен макдональдс, хэз опенинг ю can flip хамбургер, ивен ивен иф ю пи hd and you use to be a professor you can still флип.

189: Because your mental health is number one priority, but people tell them stories, they receive them, so they say, i can't leave my job or im dependent on him, or i have come on children.

190: The а. Extreme cases, the for example, there is what we call of контрол ес соу зе нассис из тук the all your personal документейшен локтю ин the house you donkey the.

191: Телефон и disconnected the earth Ирине зетс э крайм бай и so there very экстрим кейси ве ю хэв ту би тач батон и practice ес i have yet to come а кросс энни.

192: Ну, оксид ту конвенс ми the they have not chase, bad to be in touch with not one case of thousand.

193: You also talk about well these people also мерин фэнтези райт, the talking about the short фэнтези энд там c a lot because there.

194: Emotional wait for these people to an коннелли би хейп фор экзампл лайк зе Мазер оф зе нарсисс энд зетс sometimes the main reason i see people cannot get out they are trying to.

195: Help him to to save him to take care of him, how do you deal with that because you we say one must exit the short short фантазии, бат хау ду ю ду зет ит оо бойлс даун ту.

196: Two clinical феномен Ван из low when when you when you others to lose you concede the los из мост pearl и happy you, and the second thing is малина оптимизм оо.

197: Угу. Но со.

198: Dance is over you away out of reality in order to fall in order to комплай Колу и the nothing the creation of the shot фэнтези энд итс менее ю нид.

199: Сириесли Дина реалити, если depo сириесли ей you hate реалити энд ит из i master of fantasy, нас из.

200: Im gonna take your way from reality, тудус ю Инту, май реалити, май альтернатив, реалити энд виз ин зис альтернатив реалити ю гоин ту би лай соу ю кэн Фолин лав ви е. Перфект имидж image of perfection, юго.

201: И safe because i make all the choices and decisions, so you will never ever be responsible for and you will never you know you will never have to think and within this fantasy the в би от of excitement.

202: Very coffee техника фэнтази ли like a movie and this is и this two people who is reality is drunk and white and?

203: So if i want to venture эгес при кондишн фо коллаборант фэнтези из that you биг депрессии бэкграунд оффф.

204: Of сам кайн бит тенд оф май реалити Лукин, деспер ту эскейп эскиз энд ю. You enter the fantasy and it is everything.

205: I promise you its exciting and thrilling итс unpredictable its full of color, you feel safe because you have a mother that is your mother you sang have a child because he is also your child.

206: My principle соу ит кейтерс, ту её материал, инстинкт тел, инстинкт, мэн эталл, инстинктс, олсо, итс от so you can be мазе, бай, прокси, оо вай.

207: It its perfect its a perfect alternative reality its its a virtual reality and so its very addictive and very intoxicated вери дификалт, брейк бикоз вот.

208: What do you have to offer to these people им that you talk to active c you're in a fantasy you should stop it stop the fantasy xiii. Он ask you stop the fantasy н go stop the fantasy стоп.

209: Fantasy фо вот вот julia of my reality угу. Офор ми i dead reality before it didnt work it for me and so its very difficult эдишенл.

210: Of course, there is the double бондинг, её из the trauma, бондинг воч из out coming to инфорсмент энд the is also the drama, бондинг, бикоз, драма ю девелоп, толеранс ту драма со.

211: Il est драма ол the time but you also develop an addiction to драма соу драма биком defining фичер оф оф е лайф ю а, and and son what im trying to say i think is it?

212: Из total солюшен её its not a passion солюшен итс нот a daydream i not its not fantasy is not a specific аспект оф реалити фэнтези из a complete лентв реалити.

213: If you choose реалити ю can never have a fantasy у fantasy you can never of reality and increasingly more more people are choosing фэнтези, fantasy is becoming very fast and.

214: Principle of reality угу лук at all modern technologies лук at movie cinema its its to escape reality you escape reality for to earth its дисоти.

215: Social media лук at official intelligence лук ит дети all these technologies have in common the fantasy Бейс технолоджис видео games they are for due and.

216: From reality and today children play the video games ян ян пипл, а day play video games six and have hours Эдей.

217: They play video games сикс на our day what do they do with the rest of the time most ли social media what is your teacher пипл ду нот вонт ту би реалити?

218: До технолоджи кейт ту зис нид энд ху из the greatest of fantasy ху из the убайсе оо фэнтези итс наизис pathological носиси из фэнтези дефенс.

219: Everything in the нас live is a fantasy is for self из fantasy is everything is fantasy real in nothing can not the difference in fantasy and reality between your object интернал обжект.

220: ИНН диссен нас из beat судо psychotic ес энд соу зе наси и comes not only am i going to give an alternative word, which is it any movie scene but im.

221: So gonna take a way from you your responsibility, её duties, её obligations её аккаунтаблагодарю ю Фил анджел.

222: You feel абзор ю Фил лайк ю а ю а, импеке энд immaculate энеми стейк вуд би майн седе нас. Энеми стейк вуд би майн стейк, энни дисижен вуд би майн дисижен эко.

223: И mike i am all this, that you can become a child in effect with in the fun you become a child because only very small children dont have any responsibility донт мейк и decision make.

224: Choices, and so small you see the same situation in ships in ships or even тариан режимс лайк вот из на united states with дональд трамп, а the leader the ли?

225: Population in sir give me all power.

226: Give me make me the soul, дисижен ми i will make all your decisions for you, all your choice is and soul, if anything wrong you bless you dont make the decision i did.

227: Its релив итс асилит ит редус эксалити ту бин реалити эс а по ту бин реалити из де анс оф хэвинг ту мейк choices вен ю н реалити ю хэв ту чойс.

228: To decide and and very often i. Iv сам ю нид ту ду ит редюит ли and thats the power of fantasy.

229: И takes the depression, бикоз, итс вери филин калифу, энди эзат фэнтези из cure to depression, cure to зайти комбайн эпил лайк эпил.

230: Wow this has been мастер класс сам сенкью сенкью соу мач хау ар you time do you have time for a couple more quests её сенкью джаст джаст ту.

231: Finish i was wondering if maybe you because i agree with you people the thief the self a lot in this situation and its really hard to be conscious and are the whats really going on right so what?

232: Say maybe the most common ми стейкс сервайс мейк Дурин рековери ту пролонг.

233: Если to one is the belief that you can talk to the нассис ю кэн оо you can compromise ю can maybe риверс сам оф the damage through the нассис коллабору её и work?

234: Rich модус вивенди н do anything вас, so so this gym to remain тач виз угу, visa of айс.

235: Malignant оптимизм зет зе на is still has something to give you, which would make you feel better, or restore u. Summer and co угу. The truth of course that the нас из из инке оф провайде из бикоз.

236: Стейк and everything стейк and everything why would give thing back so if you want клозер и would never give you closer бикоз ту, гив ю клер из to power u and to die пауэр зе носии иф ю.

237: One to compromise and the go with the на its impossible because its my way or the highway итс нас Хайли конуэй её джерри the diana, beat antisocial оо d сошиал.

238: А indecent and the not open to the н компромат абсолютли not if you expect the нас из to restore u summer by alone you to love him оо дисплейно.

239: Very контри сам компаш, сам мес офкос дум дум ко энд со so that great first ми стейк из to say im stern in touch with the носиси.

240: Because the nothing that can benefit my mental и took away something for me, i can give it back end there is ofcourse the foundations of home because Темин 3 инфорсмент зе абьюзер, те.

241: Away something from you, which only he can give back to you like i i hate to now, but im the one who can love you, i can reverse that im cold, but i can be so.

242: Take first i take something then he gave и back end this cake give given take taken give, given take кондишн ю its a form of conditions, so yes, there is this believe that её the нас из тук элот фо ми хи тук май.

243: Took mine took my money maybe i took my sex, i took my talk everything for me, but now he has this things, and maybe i have питон ми он maybe фо о all time say maybe.

244: Из экшели квайт Рашин ризона if you know how to talk to him, or maybe, if i love him, and maybe maybe some how all these toys that he стейки эвэй Фром ми из гона шер зис тойс гивен.

245: Back to me its very инфанта синк, итс лайк ту ту ту, файтинг вич а fighting оо тойс и the first mistake фест ми стейк из do not be in touch the на nothing to get and he can.

246: Continue to take from you do and the н стейк и the exact opposite to see, when you are you gay ine.

247: Примитив дифференс механизм сплитинги из all bad that makes me all good из эти угу иф айм о good then, what ever is happened to me?

248: Nothing to do with me, i didnt контрибьют everything to it i was just the being an anchor, and this demon came and you know de финкс ту ми вай из this bed.

249: When you say the things we done to you that you contribute и that you responsible for nothing that you have nothing to do with абьюз зет ю вер энни.

250: Не object e recipient, рецептика оф the beau контейнер ю, а this and power in yourself you are creating н est locus of контрол её, you are not a master of.

251: You of your life if you say that нассис из head all the power, and i was completely па this is хелплесс ес ю Вил невер хилл ю Вил невер рекавер эс.

252: As you Клейн ту хэв биин Ван саузенд, просент хелплесс ту ривер энд ту хилл из тури Гейн эдженси тури Гейн пауэр ту селф энд пауэр.

253: Only way to do this is to take responsibility for bad decisions that you made ступи choices фо мейнинг и, despite фо биин гетин эдикта ту фэнтези ю.

254: Need to take responsibility for this minute you do it become this is not a powerful as you, make him to be that you экшели do have the power to note repeat.

255: Take again yes, so in the second problem with this of the нас Еремей, стак ин ту станс ю ю виктим, бикам айдентити.

256: Victim вот is not an identity, итс э хисторикал и facts you have been victimized зет. Да, make you a life long виктим Самсин happen to you?

257: And it with wood is like. I do know pregnancy let's take the case of pregnancy the fact that you have been прегент ванс, да, make you.

258: You been victimized итс нот айдентити зе минут ю адопт виктим из identity ит бикам а major problem because викти муд из a fantasy and so викти вуд бикам аддиктив ю.

259: Victim. Угу. Эвриван пит из ю ю гет симпатии. Ю хэв райт ю Фил тайтл ю right to special treatment. Витин ю. Филин тайтл ю мейк мани иф ю right books. Make видео.

260: Make money so you to continue to be.

261: And what way to continue to be виктима брейн пуши ю ту би виктима, со ю can turn the profitability усики.

262: Identity зен ю Вил би victimized из нот speculation, ви хэв и the show that people with personality и perceive the victims.

263: Ritmos, матч more than people who do not concede that city so тазейшен и personality or is much are than in other conditions бикоз.

264: P. F this victim станс ви хэв стадис бай Габай фо стадис бай Габай энд партнерс, колик зе the victim.

265: About the amazing ши ши компетитив ши каким компит, а nu ma user во ва.

266: And you and диман спешл тримет мейк профит мейк энд хау зис уд фо лайф this is the Габай вич Сёмина стадии.

267: So u two mistakes i ll be mine because 1 the key to my healing, оо ту и one by becoming.

268: Angel, i will make my demons.

269: Ok, dr. Sam, thank you so much for your time for your work. You are always in fire in to me, and i hope everybody everybody sees this because i think.

270: Is it has very important information so its really nice thank you for your time.